Criteria for Becoming a Foster or Adoptive Parent

Prospective foster or adoptive parents must have a heart for helping children and a willingness to open your home to a child who needs and deserves a secure, loving family.

Requirements

  • 21 years of age or older.
     
  • Mecklenburg County resident for at least six months (foster parents only).
     
  • Home inspection by the fire department for smoke and carbon monoxide alarms, and an ABC-rated size 10 or larger fire extinguisher (foster parents only).
     
  • Valid North Carolina driver license and reliable transportation (foster parents only).
     
  • High school diploma or graduate equivalent diploma (GED).
     
  • Minimum of 30 hours of pre-service training, which includes MAPP (Mode Approach to Partnership and Parenting), CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation), first aid, and others.
     
  • Income sufficient to meet your needs and the needs of the children, whether from employment, retirement or disability benefits, or an alternate source. Income must be provided on a financial reporting form.
     
  • You must not be receiving public assistance, such as food stamps, Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF), Work First benefits, or public housing.
     
  • Environmental inspection of your home.
    Each household member must have a physical examination.
     
  • Each household member 18 years of age or older must take a tuberculosis (TB) skin test.
     
  • Ability to obtain all items and materials for children in the home (cribs, car seats, bedding, etc.)
     
  • Each child must have his/her own bed, and separate and accessible drawer space for clothing and belongings. Day beds and futons are not acceptable as bedding.
     
  • A home consultation at your residence
     
  • A working landline telephone.
     
  • Criminal record check and fingerprinting.
     
  • No more than five children residing in the home at the same time, including biological, adoptive, and foster children. Specifically, you cannot have more than two children under two years old, and/or three children under five years old.
     
  • You must not have been found to have abused or neglected a child.
     
  • Must have a fence installed if your home has direct access to hazardous objects (such as a trampoline), or access to water (swimming pools, streams, rivers, lakes, etc.)
     
  • Identification of support to help in emergencies that occur with the children, such as picking up a sick child from school or daycare during business hours. 
     
  • Identified support must undergo criminal record checks and understand the discipline policy.
     
  • Pet restrictions may apply.
     
  • No licensed daycare can be in the home.

Foster Home Licensing Process

Checklist

The licensing process typically takes 6 – 12 months for foster parents and 12 – 18 months for adoptive parents.

  • Attend an orientation.
     
  • Complete a foster parent or adoptive parent application.
     
  • Complete a criminal background check coordinated by Youth and Family Services.
     
  • Complete a minimum of 30 hours of pre-service training.
     
  • Training in CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) and first aid and TIPS/MAPP (Trauma Informed Partnering for Safety and Permanence/Model Approach to Partnership in Parenting)
     
  • Provide three written references.
     
  • Partner with a social worker to complete the licensing process.
     

TIPPS/MAPP Training

Prospective foster parents must attend TIPS/MAPP (Trauma Informed Partnering for Safety and Permanence/Model Approach to Partnership in Parenting) training during the selection process.  This 10-week program provides information to help prospective foster parents decide if they are ready to provide foster care and answer many of their questions about being a foster parent. 

TIPS-MAPP is part of a mutual selection process. An applicant can select out or may be selected out by the agency if it is determined that they may not be a good fit for the children and families served by the agency.